Suicide
Any talk of suicide by a friend or loved one should be taken seriously, and help should be sought immediately. Take that person to the counseling center, its equivalent, or the emergency room; call his or her parents; or get a professional to come. Do not leave your friend alone if you think the situation is critical. Get help!
If you can’t find help in your area, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline: (800) 273-TALK
Of the many students who feel depressed, a miniscule number will go so far as to choose suicide. However, while the numbers are small, the impact is enormous and leaves lifetime scars on friends, family, and acquaintances.
In addition, it is virtually impossible to know for sure whether or not a person will choose to take his or her life. However, there are certain signs to look out for. In particular, get help immediately if you see:- Someone threatening to hurt or kill him or herself, or talking of wanting to hurt him or herself.
- Someone looking for firearms, pills, high places, or other ways to kill him or herself.
- Someone talking or writing about death, dying, or suicide, when these actions are out of the ordinary.
The American Association of Suicidology also lists the following signs of potential suicide:
- Rage, uncontrolled anger, revenge-seeking
- Acting reckless or engaging in risky activities, seemingly without thinking
- Feeling trapped - like there's no way out
- Increased alcohol or drug use
- Withdrawing from friends, family, and society
- Anxiety, agitation, difficulty sleeping, or sleeping all the time
- Dramatic mood changes
- Having no reason for living or no sense of purpose in life
